Hello there ! Well , just a short update about what's happening today , and then will continue with day 13 and 14 :D Went to some computer shop this morning to ask about my speaker problem . At first we thought is the connecting wire's problem , but it's not . Once i on my speaker , it goes like " ingggggggg " in a very low tone . LOL , but right , I off my speaker and plug my iPod headphones in , I still can hear sound eh , why ? LOL , I really don't understand . So now I have to do everything infront of my computer with my headphones on , weird . HAHAH , and yay , im going for a movie later , So happy ;D hahaha , I can't wait to go back to Msia leh , I need movie marathon . Watch movie here in the cinemas is so expensive . If convert back to ringgit , walao , heart aching . LOL ! Okay larh , day 13 and 14 below :D God bless and loves you !

DAY 13
Choose to fellowship , choose to forgive

- Jesus Christ can give a power in your relationships that you never dreamed possible- power to love and grow , power so that you are not relationally worn down at the end of everyday.

Choose to fellowship
- We can only truly love when spending time with others
- The greatest barriers to fellowship are in our thinking
- Ttru fellowship cannot be forced or scheduled ; it must be chosen and accepted

Choose to forgive
" Be kind and compassionate to one another , forgiving each other just as in Christ , God forgave you " ( Ephesians 4:32 )

- Forgiveness means you let it go but not pretending you don't remember the fact that something happened
- Jesus said that " When you're praying , first forgive anyone you are holding a grudge against, so that your Father in heaven will forgive your sins too" ( Mark 11:25 )

(review Matthew 18:32-35 )

- If you're struggling to forgive , resist the temptation to focus on our feelings of guilt about that struggle ; focus instead on God's grace and magnify in your mind his great forgiveness of your sins .

- To find strength forgiving others , we have to embrace the fact that Jesus has forgiven us
- Forgiveness is a gift from God
" If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness " ( 1 John 1:9 )

- We receive this gift by offering to God a prayer of trust



DAY 14
Choose to accept
" Accept one another , then just as Christ accepted you , in order to bring praise to God " (Romans 15:7 )

- Acceptance may be the most important issue when we face a grief together
- Accept our differences instead of demanding that others become just like us
- Without people who are different from you , you'll never truly grow

Choose to sacrifice
" This is how we know what is love : Christ gave his life for us , we too then, ought to give our lives for others ! " ( 1 John 3:16 )

- You give up your way and seek another person's good
- The greatest sacrifice may not be the once-in-a-life-time sacrifices; they may well be the daily sacrifices

1. Be patient : Love is patient
- Patience involves the often difficult art of waiting
- God listens to all of our prayers , as halting as they may be , even though he knows in advance what we're going to say , God listens to eveyr word

2. Be kind: Love is kind
- Kindness is expressed in the doing of the little things-and the little things add up to a great relationship
- Kindness means :

• We recognise and meet someone's need in a practical way
• Taking the grand vows we make to one another in a marriage ceremony and expressing them in the practical ways
• Turning the great hopes and dreams into caring of other people
• Turning our great plans to" change the world " into serving people
  

3. Don't be proud : [Love] does not envy , it does not boast , it is not proud
- Alongside the words envy , proud and boast , place the word " insecurity "
- If we felt secure in God's love for us , we would have nothing to envy, boast , and to build your ego by feeding it heaping helpings of pride

4. Don't be selfish : [Love] is not rude , it is not self-seeking , it is not easily angered it keeps no record of wrongs
- These warning signs tells us, " Im centring on myself , I've got to get back to centuring on Christ , so I can centre on others "
- The only way to deal with : choose to be unselfish , one day at a time , one action at a time

5. Don't give up : [Love] always protects , always trusts , always hopes , always perseveres
- set the commandment " Love one another " that Jesus gave us as the theme of your life